We don’t know if you ever thought about it, but using dating apps can help you in becoming a cam girl. Of course, we are strictly talking about non-adult online modeling, where you don’t have to undress or engage in any type of sexual activity to please your members. All you have to do to keep their attention and maintain their presence in the private session for as long as possible is talk to them. For this, you need conversational skills, as well as strong general knowledge, empathy, and the ability to always come up with new ways to spice up a discussion.
On the other hand, using dating apps such as Tinder or Bumble will also start with a conversation first, whether written or on camera, exactly like in an agency such as www.studio20.live, the biggest & most successful non-adult cam studio in the world. People can have multiple reasons for using dating apps: casual hookups, friendships, or starting a relationship. However, regardless of their motivation, it all comes up to the first few lines in the chat bubbles. We are only comparing these two situations since becoming a cam girl doesn’t involve meeting your members in real life, so the similarities will stop here.
Both activities we talked about before – using dating apps and working as a webcam model – imply starting and maintaining a conversation with a total stranger, from scratch. As you might have already figured out, this is not easy for everybody since it involves the qualities we talked about before. However, while casually chatting on Tinder and Bumble is a hobby, becoming a cam girl is a full-time job, and a very well-paid one, as well. Therefore, you should practice the first activity to become better at the second one – where things matter.
Having two, three, or even more conversations every day with random guys from different backgrounds will help you on your journey towards becoming a cam girl. At first, it might seem hard to know what to say, especially when you have to say it quickly, otherwise, your counterpart might unmatch or disconnect. However, in time, you will find out what drives men, apart from sex, and what they are the most receptive to. Some of them will be more than glad to talk about themselves, while others will prefer to listen. This is why active listening is just as important as knowing what to say and when to say it.
Another similarity is that, on dating apps, as well as on the road to becoming a cam girl, you will meet a lot of rude men. Even though they know their chances of meeting you and especially doing other things with you are slim, they will still try – it’s in men’s nature. You have to ignore them, change the subject, and focus on what is important for you. Every woman deserves to be strong and independent, but not every woman is born like that. Experience teaches you how to act, and sometimes the experience can come from the most unexpected places.